how to capture life with your kids {Guest post by Bonnie from A Golden Afternoon}

Baby Freia arrived on May 9th, so while I take some time to rest and bond with my little girl, an amazing group of blogger friends is helping “fill in the gaps”. I’ve been a fan Bonnie’s Instagram feed for a while now (among others) - so I asked her if she would share a few tips with us all. Whether you have kids or not, you’re going to love her tips :)

Childhood is precious.  These little ones have been given to us for such a short time.  We want to soak up these moments and keep them forever, right?  For most of us, our cell phones (iphones, specifically) have given use a huge opportunity to capture our everyday moments, at home and away.  I would love to share some less technical ways I have learned to take better pictures, simply by changing my camera perspective.

Every Mom has a different perspective on the best way to photograph their kiddos.  For me, the distant and quiet observing point of view is my favorite because I prefer not to interrupt my more intimate moments for a photo.  I love watching them in their own little world.  Think for yourself about which moments make you smile.  Do you smile most when you have a loved one in your arms?  Do you crack a smile from a far, soaking in all of the childhood joy exuding from your little ones. Whatever it is, remember…

When you take a photo, you are telling a story.

1.  Don’t be afraid to leave out a face.

This may not be our Grandma’s favorite shot.  She might think it’s weird that you see hands but no face, but I love the joy I feel from remembering a moment with my kids and the beautiful way they used their hands.   Chubby baby hands are a total bonus!  Don’t forget to include some open space (like the table space above) so that you give the action in the photo some room to breath.  Nobody like a crowded picture, right?

2. Capture the funny.

We all have those pictures of our kids being goofy and acting crazy for the camera.  Those moments always make for great pictures.  However, my favorite funny pictures are the ones where they DIDN’T know they were being funny.  This picture of my son, above, reminds me of the time in his life when he didn’t know that a squishy round bottom in a pair of underwear was cute.  It made me chuckle quietly to myself every time I saw it (sometimes out loud).

3. Stand back with your camera. 

You don’t have to see the whites of a person’s eyes to capture the beauty in a moment.  Stepping away will help you gain a new perspective and, therefore, an entirely new photo and memory.

4. Black, white & contrast were MFEO (Sleepless in Seattle, anyone?).

You know those times you wants to remember but you realize it’s night, there isn’t much light, and the color ends up looking wonky when you snap a photo?  I totally have those too.  Those nights were meant to be black and white nights.  The contrast that is created in a photo when light meats dark can be extremely emotional.  The picture above, taken of my youngest son, was a scary and precious moment.  He had just received a shock from an outlet after sticking something in it.  While I was completely nervous about the cause and effect he had just discovered, it was one of the first times he seemed to understand the danger in being too curious.  I love the way he’s clutching his favorite stuffed animal.

5. Let’s see it again.

I get asked all of the time if I pose my kids or create scenes just to take pictures.  Usually, my pictures are completely “in the moment” and organic, where I speak nothing and just snap a photo.  Other times, I might be having a conversation with my kids and they do something funny or something worth telling a story about.  In a few cases I say, “I love it!  Let me see that again!”, “Show it to me again and hold it up and to the side.” or “Do that dance again”.  The moments are happening, but when I feel the moment is worth preserving beyond just my memory, I ask the kids to do something again so I can capture it permanently.

6. Capture the ordinary.

A funny conversation amongst your kiddos, silly little dance moves, the way a toddler waddles like a penguin, a child reading their favorite book, the groceries all over the counter, a messy room, your morning oatmeal…

It’s important to remember the moments that make up our every day, however ordinary they may seem.

7. Don’t  forget to enjoy the moment.

There are times when we aren’t able to enjoy a moment because we are so excited to capture it or share it.  Don’t forget to slow down and just enjoy their childhood.  It will be gone in a flash!

PS: Also, 10 tips to take killer pictures with your phone.

(All photos in Bonnie’s post are from an iphone 5, edited with VSCO and Afterlight)

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10 Responses to “how to capture life with your kids {Guest post by Bonnie from A Golden Afternoon}”
  1. audrey says:

    Thank you so much Bonnie for your beautiful pictures and words :) I hope that someday I can capture our life, raw and beautiful like you do. So nice to be able to count on fellow bloggers while Freia and I rest up at home! xxx

  2. stacy says:

    Bonnie!!! What a wonderful surprise to see you here today — excellent post with excellent tips. I could stare at your photos for hours. They really do tell a story and it is interesting to here you talk about it! Miss you lady

    • audrey says:

      I agree with you, Stacy. They tell a story on their own. And then Bonnie also adds even more depth to them with her beautiful words :)

  3. Kathy says:

    Great photos and also liked the link on taking pictures with the phone. Hope mom and baby are doing well miss seeing you here!

    • audrey says:

      Awww thanks Kathy – I miss the blog and you guys too. The first few weeks have been a bit trickier than I thought from a health perspective, but hopefully all gets better soon so I can hag out with you guys again :) Thanks for stopping by! xxx

  4. love this, so beautiful (congrats Audrey!!!)

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